The perfect present. That seemingly
elusive, know-it-when-we-see-it, nothing-else-will-do,
guaranteed-to-please embodiment of our sentiment. What single object or
gesture can convey the sum of our emotions? And what transforms an item
or gesture into the perfect present—the present to accompany and
enhance the verbal expression of our feelings?
Think back on the most memorable gifts
you've received. Why do these particular gifts stand out? Perhaps they
revealed how intimately you were known by the giver. Maybe they
expressed an understanding of what would bring you pleasure, stir an
emotion, or evoke a sentiment. Such gifts cultivate, enhance, or nurture
relationships between the giver and the recipient.
So, is there a straightforward definition
of the perfect present? The American Heritage Dictionary defines the
words perfect and present (gift) as follows:
per-fect (pur'fikt) adj. 1. Lacking
nothing essential to the whole; complete. 2. Without defect; flawless.
3. Excellent and delightful in all respects.
pre-sent (prez'ant) n. 1. Something that
is bestowed voluntarily and without compensation. An offering, token, or
remembrance.
Hence, the following extrapolation:
per-fect pre-sent (pur'fikt prez'ant). 1.
An excellent and delightful, voluntary, and uncompensated bestowal of a
flawless and complete offering, token, or remembrance.
Simple enough? Probably not. One reason
it's often difficult to find the perfect gift is because it's almost
impossible to define it in the first place. The definition varies with
respect to expectations, occasions, needs, interests, and relationships
between givers and recipients. The perfect gift for one might produce
disastrous or embarrassing results when given to another. The same box
of chocolate truffles symbolizing pure indulgence to a self-declared
chocoholic might represent an act of sabotage to one resolutely on his
or her way to a new waist size.
Present Perfect: Unforgettable Gifts for
Every Occasion will assist you in defining pur'fikt prez'ants within a
framework of changing circumstances and expectations.
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